"Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'" ~Erich Fromm
With Valentine's freshly over a few days back and the flowers starting to droop a little, I noticed this article on Yahoo about how divorces pick up shortly after V-Day. At first I didn't give much thought to it, though I did give it a read and could understand the reasoning behind why people feel that such a day wrapped up in love could bring some renewed hope. Love is love though, and no special "holiday" is going to make a difference on whether or not something is going to help a doomed relationship. Ok, maybe doomed is too much; so how about failing?! But as I keep seeing relationship statuses changing, there must be some truth to it. However, I'm wondering if there was just TOO much pressure put on the day to have things be some magical fairy tale of everything is going to be better, that just didn't deliver and has crushed the hope of love? Oh my, here I am rambling on about love again... anyways.. Love ain't easy... nothing in life is! There's good days and bad days in any relationship, even the BEST ones. But it takes work! So before I keep on about love, enjoy this labor of love! Here's this week's Tarotscopes!!
Well hopefully Valentine's Day was a good one for you and you're not one dealing with the heartbreak that so many others currently are! But if you are having questions regarding your relationship or would like to know if a relationship is on the horizon, feel free to send me a message at facebook or my email and I'll be more than happy to take a look at things for you!!
Have a wonderful week!