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March 12th - 18th Tarotscopes


Sooner or later I may be able to get back to updating my blog more regularly!! Of course I won't look to put the blame anywhere else.. I'm sure if I made the time it would happen. LOL! But with an 8 month old running around now, he's definitely got a lot of my attention!! I do find it amusing that Mercury retrograde seems to put things in motion for me to actually get a blog post done.. or at least maybe started, since I have a few that still need editing and posted! But they're there just waiting to make their debut! So within these next couple of weeks during the retro period, which just started today and will last until April 4th, hopefully I'll get some more posts knocked out! Here's to hoping anyways!!

Like I said, this is the retrograde period for Mercury which also happens to be in Aries.. so it'll definitely be a time to rethink the direction of where things are going. I found it interesting that I finally get around to posting and it will be the last before the Spring Equinox comes about on the 20th when the Sun moves into Aries and gives us more energy to start fresh in a lot of ways! It really gave me the indication that this post was needed! So without any more delays, let's see what's in store for everyone this week!!



Aries (Mar 21 - April 19)- Obstacles could have you feeling like all your efforts are leading you to a dead end. This may also leave you feeling confused or maybe even angry! If you force things aggressively it will only cause more affliction. Alternatively, you might just have a feeling like you don't need to put in any effort to get ahead this week. No matter what sort of motivation you try to manage, it just keeps falling short of getting you need. Have faith that you don't always need to push yourself to the limit! The status and recognition you're looking for will come about with a sense of clarity... once you stop looking for it!







Taurus (Apr 20 - May 20)- This week will be very hopeful and encouraging as you rethink about where you are wanting to take things in your life. You know you can do anything that you set your mind to and have been taking more control of things lately. You're totally driven at this point and some people might see you as being a little bit of a workaholic right now. You just want to get ahead and know that if you want it, you need to go for it! If anyone is trying to sway you from your path, you'll need to deal with it. You know you're moving forward in a positive direction!








Gemini (May 21 - June 21)- If ever a time to have some hope were needed, this week is it!! Every avenue just seems to keep leading to a dead end! But you can't let this feeling consume you and you need to realize that it's shared by everyone at some time sooner or later! Keeping faith that you are doing what you can and limiting self doubt, is going to be essential this week. Try not to be resentful if people around you are having a different experience in life. It is a cycle that never ends. Find your passion and faith and remind yourself that "this to shall pass".








Cancer (June 21 - July 22)- The efforts you have been putting into your passion is now starting to come back to you! This is REAL progress! Now definitely is not the time to just sit back and see what happens, you need to continue pressing on.
Just be careful you don't get too ahead of yourself, there's still work to be done before you can fully celebrate! You may need to go back over your plans to make an informed decision on where your path will go next to keep the progress going. Remember that you can't always do things on your own, so now is the time to see who will be with you every step of the way!







Leo (July 23 - Aug 22)- Situations still might have you having to compromise in some way, but if you can dig deep and really let others know how you feel, you could find yourself making the decision without any fear or doubt. This week will bring about an emotional balance for you though! You will realize that success may come in small doses, but at least it's happening! Allow those that are supportive of you to lend a hand along the way. Try not to be upset if you aren't making the strides you'd like.. there will always be obstacles to overcome and decisions to be made.








Virgo (Aug 23 - Sept 22)- Sometimes you just need to follow the rules! Even if you don't want to!! It's good to be a rebel now and then or we wouldn't the revolutions that are needed to shake things up. But at the same time it would be best to make sure your actions are really matching up to your beliefs!! You know how to communicate your ideals effectively, but you could find right now that you're only talking the talk and not walking the walk! Take this time to think about what you're really trying to accomplish and stick to the high ground. Being true to yourself will bring about the happiness you seek!








Libra (Sept 23 - Oct 22)- Pleasure and abundance abounds this week! Even when things haven't been the easiest, you get back up and go again! You'll find more creativity in your friendships and relationships and will see that the more that you give, the more you get from them! This card is one of material or physical gain, though it might come about in a way you hadn't expected. Make sure that you don't take things for granted and are truly grateful for the experiences that you will have! If you can manage throwing a party this coming weekend you'll find yourself with the best get together in a while and creating some long lasting memories for yourself and others!







Scorpio (Oct 23 - Nov 21)- Unfinished business you though wouldn't be a big deal, suddenly is! You should've seen things coming, but this is like doing the same thing and expecting a different result! You can take this time to make what's wrong right and get things back on track. Now isn't the time to give up. Have faith in yourself and don't give in to negative thinking. Things may look grim, but keep hope in that you'll be able to do what is necessary. It might not be the easiest to deal with but in order to have a flourishing garden, you have to have some rainy days!








Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21)- You might need to really think about how you go about your approach to things this week! You can't expect things to just work out on their own and you need to start relying more on yourself! If you want things to change, you're going to need to put the effort in to make it happen! Work situations might take another turn and could leave you a little stressed that you went about things in the wrong way or that you need to take a whole other approach to get where you want to be. Now is the time to really start thinking about what it is you're after in life. Otherwise, it's going to keep passing on by!







Capricorn (Dec 22 - Jan 19)- If you feel you're being a little indecisive as to where life is taking you, now is NOT the time to hold yourself back from the changes that are coming. Embrace a fresh perspective! It's time to take a look at the bigger picture and see that you can't always make excuses; whether they're for others or yourself. Ultimately you are the one left to make the decision with what you want and need to take responsibility for the choices you make! It's a good time to free yourself from someones influence and have more faith in yourself to make the right decision.








Aquarius (Jan 20 - Feb 19)- Be careful that you're not only thinking about yourself this week or it could come back to bite you! One moment you might feel optimistic and excited at the way things are going and the next minute you'll be aggravated all to hell! This week it'll be like adding extra fuel to an already huge bonfire!! Usually you are generous with others, but you might need to step back a little before you crash and burn with your relationships or you could end up coming across as rude and overbearing. You need to be clear in your thoughts and approaching things with pure intentions.








Pisces (Feb 20 - Mar 20)- It might seem that you're being forced to deal with someone or something you'd rather not. Maybe it's time to let go of any bitterness you're feeling or just realize that it's not as important to harbor those feelings of resentment for one moment longer. Let the past stay in the past and know that what you are creating now far outweighs anything that may have kept you from happiness before. You might also need to learn that giving is just as important as receiving. Finding balance between struggle and joy brings you to a more selfless place within yourself.







If you'd like a reading so I can take a look at things more in depth, you can send me a message at facebook or my email!

Many Blessings and have a great week everyone!
Andi

Happy Chinese New Year!!


恭贺新禧!! Happy Chinese New Year!! Welcome to the year of the Water Dragon! And I am SUPER excited to have found some time to write a new blog post! I know, finally, right!? For those of you that follow me on my Twitter or Facebook you’d know I’ve been a little busy with my now 7 month old! I’m not trying to make excuses, but hey, life happens!!! Anyways, let’s stop discussing this boring stuff and get to the goodies!!

In Chinese astrology, the Dragon symbolizes luck, success, and happiness. Dragons are said to be innovative, self-assured, passionate, and free-spirited individuals. But they can also be unpredictable, selfish and quick-tempered! Since this is a Water year, it has a calming effect to the Dragon’s temperament and can make them more perceptive to the needs of others. Decisions in situations can be more carefully evaluated before rushing head first into new projects, giving more patience and success in the endeavors!

Here’s my take on what you can expect in the upcoming year for your Chinese horoscope. However, since the Chinese New Year doesn’t occur on the same date each year, it’s important to check if your Chinese sign is correct for the year listed! Here is a link to check your sign and the element for the year!


Rat (born 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008)
This should be one of the best years you’ve had in a while! However you’ll need to make sure you put in the effort AND make sure the risks you take are worth it, if should you leap before you look! You will have great luck in matters of career and will be able to secure finances! Be careful in keeping your ego in check so as not to create any office drama! If ever a time were to pursue your dreams, this is the time to make them all come true! Relationships may be risky if you put in the effort without getting the same in return.

Ox (born 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009)
The Dragon can bring about change and you may need to remain flexible if you want things to end up favorable. Even when things may seem difficult, there will be necessary learning experiences to be had! Career will require more focus in order to get ahead. Try not to make any major decisions and take things step by step. Relationships may be a little harder to manage since priorities look to be elsewhere. Communication will be crucial to work through your problems. You may find yourself relying on others a little too much and will need to stick more with what you know rather than trying to change yourself.

Tiger (born 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010)
While you rule the Western sky and the Dragon rules the East, don’t take that to mean you won’t be able to work together! Quite the opposite!! The Water element is also your most favorable so you’ll have more than enough luck and opportunities this coming year! Career choices may bring about some wild ideas so don’t get too carried away if you’re really wanting something long standing to work out. Passion will increase in your romance, but that doesn’t necessarily make for a stable relationship. You’ll need to talk things out to make sure you’re both on the same page if you want things to be lasting!

Rabbit (born 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011)
Things might be a little more challenging this year than they were last. But that is simply because the pace of the Dragon is a little quicker! The change you’ve been hoping for can finally end up becoming withstanding! Career and finances may need to be a priority before expenses become too much of a burden. It’s time to buckle down and make things happen for yourself before relying on anyone else. Relationships may become problematic if stress from work is bringing you down. Be patient and allow things to work out naturally. There are some things you won’t be able to compromise with.

Dragon (born 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012)
It’s your year!! But try not to be over confident or it could end up burning you! While you will have luck on your side, this doesn’t mean that success won’t come without some work! You’ll need to make sure that you give what you get and maintain a balance. Within your career it may be difficult to keep your concentration if you feel the desire to get ahead quickly. Make sure you find a routine that you can stick with and don’t take things personally when conflicts arise. Romance will focus on the trust that you have for others. Now isn’t the time to settle for second best! Respect will need to be earned if things are to succeed!

Snake (born 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001)
Things may not be too much different than they were last year! You may result in having more temptation, but you know when something is a sure thing and when you need to let it pass. Your career is sure to be on the upswing, but more responsibilities will come as a result as well! This won’t be anything you can’t handle and you’ll enjoy the respect you receive! Relationships will have some highs and lows and you could be pressed to make decisions you’re not comfortable with. If you don’t want to take all the responsibility, you’ll need to work together to come to a resolution.

Horse (born 1930, 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002)
You can expect things to pick up pace this year and you’ll need to try and keep your stress in check! Career and finances have been a priority for a while and now is the time that your ambitions will finally be fulfilled! Being the “work horse”, you’ll enjoy being put to the test to keep the momentum going! Romance can be frustrating and may be feeling as though it is taking time away from your career endeavors. Finding a balance between work and pleasure will be crucial in your relationships! A renewed passion will bring you much closer to others if you give yourself the chance to enjoy it!

Sheep (born 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003)
While things may become more hectic, it doesn’t mean you need to follow the flock! This is the time to maintain what you’ve been able to achieve and try not to mix things up too much. Your career and finances will remain stable and you’ll be able to build things up substantially IF you don’t feel the extra money burning a hole in your pocket! Your impulses will be strong this year and within relationships this may end up bringing disagreements if you can’t control your emotions. Be careful with whom you decide to trust or you could find yourself being taken advantage of.

Monkey (born 1932, 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004)
You can expect to make this one of your greatest years! But at the same time you’ll need to make sure you don’t get too ahead of yourself or you might miss out on crucial details that might cause problems later on! Anticipate many new opportunities being available to you, just make sure you don’t hop from one to the other and concentrate on what you really want to achieve and you’ll be successful! Don’t be surprised if something or someone from the past is brought to your attention. Relationships will bring about a greater understanding and appreciation on what you bring to those you’re involved with.

Rooster (born 1933, 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005)
Last year wasn’t your best, but you’re ready to accept the work that is needed to make this one better! Creativity awakens within and your career will be prosperous as you take this energy and harness it into the ability to make things different for yourself! This may also be the time to focus on getting some new training that will make you more desirable within your field. Your relationships and love life will also get some much needed assistance and even when drama comes about you’ll be able to work through things so that those around you can see you’re putting the effort in that you haven’t in the past!

Dog (born 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006)
Don’t anticipate this being one of your favorite years! Dragons and Dogs don’t get along much, so there’ll definitely be some challenges! While your career and finances may need some work, you will have some that are hopeful for your downfall. That’s not to say everyone is out to get you, several will remain helpful to you but they’ll only be able to do so much. You could find yourself working too hard to prove your worth! Commitments may also not be your strong suit this year in relationships, no matter how loyal you’d like to be. Your bark will prove more fatal than your bite so choose your words wisely!

Pig (born 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007)
Things may seem like they’re moving fast paced and you could feel as though any moment there will be a disaster just waiting to happen. But that’s not the case! It’s all about going with the flow this year! Even though things may be a little demanding in your career, you’ll be able to be successful in managing any stress that is created from the workflow! As a result from your hard work a promotion and increase in your finances is likely as well! Relationships may be on the backburner at times, but you’ll want to focus more on deeper emotions rather than what is physically available to you.


Well it was great to get back to working on my blog! Hope you enjoyed the quickie overlook for your Chinese horoscopes and if you have any questions or would like me to take a more in depth look at your year or maybe you’d like to know what Feng Shui cures might work for you; feel free to contact me at my facebook or email! Be sure to stop back soon as I'll be offering some Valentine’s Day specials!!

Many Blessings and have a great week everyone!
Andi

No Target, it's NOT ok to judge!


The last few days I've noticed the Universe giving me a couple little signals... a few work mates and friends first were discussing some words that we have banned. Words that came up included the "f" word, and no not f*ck.. which I have NO problems tossing around at times! Also, the "n" word; which I really can not stand and the "r" word, that I've had problems at times with it rolling off my tongue but have definitely made a conscious effort to not use it considering I have a special needs kid!

So imagine my surprise today when I was doing some shopping online today at Target and was told "It's ok to judge". I took a quick screenshot of it! I sat for a moment just thinking about it. And then I started to get mad! And not because I don't think that there shouldn't be some sort of measurable standards at times. I mean c'mon The Biggest Loser obviously is measuring a health standard and they are being "judged", just as many other reality tv shows like Dancing with the Stars or American Idol! But there's a time and place for judgments to be made. Unfortunately it seems like people make too many judgments without any justification! It's bad enough that we make judgments about ourselves; not pretty enough or smart enough or rich enough. But when we start to put these judgments on others, we're only projecting our own insecurities.

I happened to catch Dr. Phil today which was all about bullying. October is National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month. It was very much about passing judgments and the bullies own insecurities! There was also a great organization featured as well; Stomp Out Bullying. And while I didn't agree with everything that was being said, the main idea was what was important. There's no reason to judge anyone, EVER! Because *hopefully* everyone is doing the best that they can. So Target, how about instead of "it's ok to judge" we go with "it's about choice".  But oh wait, wasn't there some problem about gay equality with Target?!? Maybe we'll save that for another post! ;)

So, as in my other posts Minding Your Words and Minding Your Thoughts it's just important to remember that we're all in this together and the interactions we bring to one another are equally needed as much as the progress we make on ourselves!

Namaste!!

Asking for Help.. it's not that difficult!


Golly gee it's been a while since I've managed to make a post on my blog! But sometimes life just becomes a little complicated... As some of you may or may not know, I recently moved back to Florida AND I had my third child, Soren, in June! Something had to give and thus the blog went on the back burner! When you're a *new* mom you tend to put a lot of focus into being SUPER mom... everything needs to go exactly how you think it will! But this also happens at many other times in someones life as well. You strive to push yourself to the limits to meet whatever expectations you think you need to attain. And sooner or later you'll hit a wall if you think you can do it alone!!

Of course though asking for help can take a hit to your pride. It's not always the easiest to admit when something becomes a little too much to handle on your own! And whether you'd like to admit it or not, we all have someone that's got our back in times of need. When you open yourself up into letting someone else take the reins, it might feel as though you're giving over a sense of control. This really isn't the case though as opening up in this way brings about a deeper sense of trust! "We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone - but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy." ~Walter Anderson 

It's really that trust that allows you to see how much you're cared for and lets you view things from another perspective! Sometimes it's tough to realize that you can't do it all OR know it all! And at the same time it's those weaknesses that make you all the more human. NO ONE has the "perfect" life.. as much as they might like you to think that! I think that's part of why my clients find me so relatable... my ego doesn't get in the way! I'm able to see that no matter what, we're all just doing the best that we're able to do with the resources we're given at any particular time! Sometimes it'll just take us a little longer to ask for that helping hand because we think we're able to keep pushing ourselves to grin and bear it. I know I do it a lot of the time!! But none of us has to suffer in silence... there's always someone that will help us see the light at the end of the tunnel if we're just willing to let them in!

If you're feeling like you need to look at things from a different perspective, I'd be more than happy to take a look at your situation for you! You can send me an email, IM me through any major IM client (YIM, AIM, MSN, etc.) at psychicandi, or contact me at facebook, Liveperson, Keen, or Bitwine! And on another note.. Definitely keep your eyes peeled for some new content that will be making it's way onto the blog now that I've been able to get more of a routine down! I hope everyone that has been keeping up with me and the new readers have been enjoying your summer!!!

Many Blessings!

Updated Retainer Packages!!


*RETAINER READINGS*

A retainer is a fee paid in advance for services! Retainers are paid monthly and based on an estimate of the amount of work to be done for the client each month. By pre-paying for services in advance, a discount is also given on the services!! Here's how it works:

We'll say Tammy picks retainer package #2. She received two 60 minute readings the first week and a Reiki healing. Week 2 she opts for two 30 minute readings and 3 mini readings. Week 3 she has two more 30 minute readings. At Week 4 she has a Reiki healing and a 15 minute reading.. now at this point, she has only $10 left.. but because of the pre-payment she'll also receive a 30 minute session at MORE than 1/2 off to make up the remaining balance and she'll save $50!!!!

Retainer packages are GREAT for clients that know they will need ongoing services and can be completely customized to their needs!! I only take so many clients on retainer so as to make sure there's enough time for the clients that DO utilize this service as well as the other clients I help daily. For information on retainer  pricing and the services I currently offer, please check the Services Available page! If you have ANY questions feel free to send me an email or quick IM through Digsby on the right hand side of the page!

Namaste!!
Andi

Celebrate Ostara


Happy Ostara (also Eostara, Eostre) or also known as the Spring/Vernal Equinox! It is celebrated when night and day are in perfect balance. That is, they are the same amount of hours. At this time we are inviting the fertility of the Earth to awaken. So, it is also the first day of Spring!!! Which believe me, after being in FL for a few years and experiencing Winter again, I'm MORE than happy Spring has sprung! Now is the time to consider what goals or wishes you would like to achieve that you will nurture for the next few months to blossom and grow!

With my last Celebrate Ostara post, I talked about gardening and how I bless my seeds for the upcoming growing season. This time, I'm going to focus more on manifesting goals! Now is the perfect time for achieving new or uncompleted goals, wishes and dreams! No more excuses for why you may be hindering your growth! In a sense you will be blooming yourself! :)

With many of my spells I like to work with candles. Candle flames are seen on all astral levels and can carry your workings out into these planes. The flames can also be a representation of the growing sunlight as well as your goals being achieved! There is an old wives tale of burning green candles at the Equinox to bring in financial prosperity, but this of course could also be used for any manifestation by substituting another candle color; pink for love, purple for spirituality/psychic abilities, etc. You can find more information on my post Manifesting with Candle Magick.


First steps:
I begin by cleansing my home and self by lighting a sage stick. Then I will bless my candles to be used. If I'm using oils on them, I will "dress" them and inscribe any symbols I would like them to have, then will hold them in my hands and focus my intent into them, following up with infusing them with Reiki energy as well. If I'm making incense, I will gather all the ingredients and will bless them and leave them on my altar. Because I am such a visual person, when I manifest, I like to have a list to focus on as well. Sometimes I'll make it super pretty with Photoshop and other times I'll just use a piece of paper and doodle my own designs on it to spiffy it up, and still other times I will make a wish board with pictures of what I'd like to manifest! The main purpose to any spell work or energy work is to make it work for YOU and the best way you can feel your energy pouring into it!

Next steps:
Set everything up!! You'll want your space to look pretty! Especially if you would like to do the working more than once. Usually I can find some pretty good flowers at Walmart or the grocery store that'll make the altar look nice! Set up the candles, and incense if you're using it.

Begin the work:
Depending on your beliefs, you may or may not cast a circle to work within. Either way if you do or don't, take a moment to center your thoughts and do a light meditation to get yourself ready for the work. After, you may want to call in some deities if you work with them, but if not, you can just start with the manifesting! Light your incense and candles and begin stating your affirmations you would like to manifest. Here are a few examples!

Personal:
I choose my happiness and eliminate negative thoughts that keep me from my goals.
I trust the Universe and what I need or want is always taken care of.
I completely accept myself and others as unique beings.

Prosperity:
I give thanks for my substantial increase in my finances.
I trust that I have far more than what I feel is needed coming my way.
My work is deeply fulfilling and I will receive the income I need.

Love:
I am open to giving and receiving love.
I am worthy to be loved and will share my love of life with others.
The love I have been looking for has been present all along.

Health:
My body and mind are happy and healthy.
My body is receiving the proper care that it requires.
I am healthy and strong and love my body.


Now, these are just some examples and I'm sure there are far more available on the internet with a quick Google search of "affirmations" or you will be able to come up with some that are just as effective! Besides writing or chanting your desires you just need to relax, keep positive and allow time for the ritual to work it's magick for you!

There are many ways to celebrate this wonderful holiday! If you need any help personalizing your spiritual path, feel free to send me a message at my email or facebook and I'd be more than happy to help you!!

May you have a Blessed Ostara!

 Andi